Should I leave my boyfriend?

-My boyfriend and i have been together on and off since high school and I really don't know where this relationship is going. I am 29 now, Indian and very confused. My boyfriend is also Indian. The relationship hasn't really been good but I am comfortable with him. He has cheated on me in the past and I have taken him back. I have now let him move in with me. He treats me like I am a small piece of his life. He told me that i am a nobody and will always come last in his life. I think he is just acting this way. He spends most of his time cruising the internet, drinking and smoking pot. He took me to starbucks for coffee on valentines day.

I met a different guy over a year ago and we bacame friends.He is white and italian. As time went by he fell in love with me. He always put me first in his life even down to the food we ate together. I noticed that he would never put a piece of food in his mouth until i started eating. He would sacrifice for me and give up things he wanted or needed so i can have the things I wanted or needed. He even paid to shut down the local bar we go to so him and I could have a private dinner together. He told that being with my boyfriend was lowering my self esteem and i was developing self worth issues. When he finally told me that he loved me unconditionally I told him it was best we never speak again. It has been 11 months since we last spoke. He did wish me a happy diwali but i didn't answer him back. I don't know if that was the right decision. I now realize he was the only person in my life who was being true to meBreak up wih your doushe *** boyfriend. Why would you date a guy who treat you like trash? All girls should feel loved and have a good self esteem of themselves. Dump you boyfriend and rekindle with the white guy. He's the type of guy who will love you and spoil your heart. You don't deseve to be hurt. I'm not saying chase after the white guy take some time after your break up then rekindle the flames. He seems like a picure perfect guy. But he maybe different once you actually started dating and you said it's been almost a year who knows. Dump you boyfriend he's a jerk. You deserve better.This is the Marriage and divorce section. Yahoo started this section so the mature people having REAL issues in their lives could ask about them with out having to deal with all the stupid dating questions.
i think you should leave your boyfriend, he doesnt treat you right. If you love the other guy phone him and ask him to dinner.
You are deluded to stay with the guy that makes you feel bad.
What??? Are you having a laugh? There is no relationship. The guy treats you like a dork.
you should leave him foir sure. its incredible that you are even asking such an obvious question
yes you should leave your boy friend.
are you dot head indian or me smoke em peace pipe indian?
of course its not right you are worth more
You are hanging on to something that is no longer there. You have memories of what it was but it is not that way now. He is bringing you down and yu are letting him do this. Only you can change this. If you want to be happy, you need to let him go. Why would you let anyone tell you that you are worthless and a no one? Does that sound like love to you? To bad you let the other one go.
I know you choose the old bf because he is an indian. Its sad that someone that makes you happy, and loves you for who you really are, is overshadowed by someone who treats you like dirt, just for the sake of what you think people want to see or expect from you. I say, try to get something going with italian, and if he is still in love and wanting to be with you, give that a shot, make yourself happy.
Of course you should leave your boyfriend, you found someone else special in your life, and he sounds really special, you should tell your boyfriend that you want to break up and explain why you want to, and call then find your friend that treats you like a princess and say you want him so bad and explain why. im sure he will want you back too. you found somene special and took advantage of it and now you lost it, bu i believe you will get him back. you just have to try hard. i wish you the best of luck!
LEAVE HIM NOW. He is not good enough for you. Find the Italian, seriously. Leave your boyfriend now, no one deserves to be treated like that. Someone who has cheated do not deserve a second chance and then to treat you like that. I can't believe you're even asking this question on here. The answer is obvious, he doesn't love you, I doubt you love him anymore. Kick him out and find the man who treated you well and loved you.
i personally thnk u made a very stupid mistake. why would you give up a good man who obviously gave a great deal abt u 4 a person, i wont even call him a man, who told u str8 up u r and nobody and will always *** last in his life? He took you 2 starbucks while this other guy is willing 2 shut down tha whole resturant 4 yu. l also agree with other guy when he says your boifriend is lowering ur self esteem because it doesnt take a genius 2 figure out which option was better.