-I don't know how to bring it up. I am really upset, I feel cheated on. I also notice on his computer he was searching "trina's a**, big ****, etc" I was really upset. he has cheated on me a lot, but he is trying to make it right. and I just saw the PAID PORN yesterday.
What should I do, I feel like he cheated on me.
we been together for over 2 years.Nooooo! Don't think like that!!
From a personal view point if he is horny and your not around and is lacking imagination...
I can see where your coming from, w*nking over another girl an all but I can promise you 95% of guys look at porn - especially if they're young 30 or younger.
I have actually talked about this with my friends chick - around her he cant look at anyone or else the claws come out lol... she makes her own porn for him coz she realizes guys are guys... if your finding it hard to bring up the situation then you could always make your own solo video then show it to him.
He might be like oh wow kinda thing.. then you can say I made you this coz i feel cheated on by you watching it etc.
It still might not work though - new material would always be needed. You might not wanna here it but from a god dam horny guys perspective I would carry on watching it, i'd just be secretive about it. But then I wouldn't be happy about having to be secretive about it.. i believe honesty in a relationship is the way forward..
Oh yea.. slap him for paying for it!!! XNXX is just one of many loololool.
porn is a very normal and natural thing, dont feel cheated on regarding the porn. It is no reflection on you. I know many men and women who use it. It doesnt make him a bad person or fancy u anyless i promise! he will have used it before you and will probably continue too, the underlying issue here seems to be the fact he cheated on you previously, talk to him about ur trust issues, he may be working on them but communication is the key... :) if your ucomfortable he will explain why to you, and that its not a reflection on you, it will put ur mind at ease. Dont fly off the handle when u ask him, just sit him down and ask him to explain it to you, why he used it and then talk about it.
you really need to just sit him down and talk about it. Tell him you found his porn and you want to talk about it. Don't listen to these woman who think its "normal" for guys to look at other woman like this... they say that if you dont let your guy watch porn then you are insecure but thats bull ****.
If you dont like it you dont like it .. porn can become addictive just like a drug and plenty of people are for or against drugs so you need to have the porn talk with your boyfriend and see if he is willing to give it up for you or not.
Don't take any notice of all the "know it all" females that tell you it is normal for all males to watch porn. If it is there in front of their face, yeah, then they will watch it. But for someone who is in a relationship to pay for it ---- he has a problem.
Therefore you have a problem as well. If he is such a type you would be far better off giving him the flick & finding someone normal down the track.
He can't be too bright - he got caught out!
talk to him about it, if he has cheated on you a number of times in the past its only a matter of time till he does it again. soon the porn will not be enough and he will want more.
once a cheater, always a cheater.
sorry
You realise 90% of men masterbate . How many of that percent watches porn ? The majority easily . Don't feel cheated on by this
I agree that it feels like he is cheating. You should be enough for him. If you talk to him and he doesnt stop..you know what to do!
it is a legal activity.
does not make him a bad guy or than he thinks any less of you
i don't care much for porn,but,i have nothing aganst it
people watch porn all the time. thats definatly not a big deal. of course people paying for porn thats just stupid! but siriosly talk it out if you think this is an issue
You feel cheated because buddy paid for porn tell to go to some free wabsites then
You say: "He has cheated on me a lot"... sorry girl but, why the **** are you still with him? For the love of God, have some pride!
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2011年8月4日星期四
How and where can i get my life partner?
-How: do not change the way you are unless you need a touch-up in your personality.
Where: good girls go to heaven and bad girls are everywhere.By being yourself and taking yourself where members of the opposite sex hang out. If you hang out in a trashy place, trashy people are going to go there and you will end up with a trashy person. If you to a working class place, where people like to hang out after work, you will probably find a good person, who is employed, has some self respect and is motivated in the world. You should go with option 2 - find a place where the working people like to hang out when they get off work and don't have any life partners to go home to- thus making them single and available.
My dear,
Some are luckier, some have to work on it, being focused and working on the path makes love & marriage come to you sooner since almost all is in our actions.
Be on the lookout, tell your friends / family / your prayer place / community place. Join an activity group of your interest where youngsters are present. Join online dating & matrimonial sites, look into local and professional matchmakers.
Here are some sites: shaadi.com, jeevansathi.com, bharatmatrimony.com, christianmatrimony.com, simplymarry.com
If you feel you have to work on yourself to improve physically, emotionally, character & personality wise etc, then do that as well.
Being financially independent is always good.
===================================
--( important)
There is a spiritual side to love & marriage as well.Do browse thru this and follow. Has helped many.
http://sites.google.com/site/drskylovean鈥?/a>
====================================
Read the book:
Love will find you: 9 magnets to bring you and your soulmate together
By Kathryn Alice
http://www.kathrynalice.com/index.html
==================================
--http://thesecret.tv/index.html
Read the book, The SECRET(part about winning relationships)
==The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts
By Dr. Gary chapman
Wish you best.
ALWAYS REMEMBER LIFE HAS NO RULES.
finding your life partner entirely depends upon you.you see a guy near you ask in your mind is he the one???????????and thats how it goes.....there are no fixed place or time just be normal....bye
Why on earth are you so "Desperate" to find a life partner? Aren't you happy with your life ?
Men are available all over the world?
What is the problem?
Craigslist
see here nd there in ur circle u got ur life partner..
Please write your birth details for your answer
Pray to almight to God, he shall lead ya.
at walmarks
Where: good girls go to heaven and bad girls are everywhere.By being yourself and taking yourself where members of the opposite sex hang out. If you hang out in a trashy place, trashy people are going to go there and you will end up with a trashy person. If you to a working class place, where people like to hang out after work, you will probably find a good person, who is employed, has some self respect and is motivated in the world. You should go with option 2 - find a place where the working people like to hang out when they get off work and don't have any life partners to go home to- thus making them single and available.
My dear,
Some are luckier, some have to work on it, being focused and working on the path makes love & marriage come to you sooner since almost all is in our actions.
Be on the lookout, tell your friends / family / your prayer place / community place. Join an activity group of your interest where youngsters are present. Join online dating & matrimonial sites, look into local and professional matchmakers.
Here are some sites: shaadi.com, jeevansathi.com, bharatmatrimony.com, christianmatrimony.com, simplymarry.com
If you feel you have to work on yourself to improve physically, emotionally, character & personality wise etc, then do that as well.
Being financially independent is always good.
===================================
--( important)
There is a spiritual side to love & marriage as well.Do browse thru this and follow. Has helped many.
http://sites.google.com/site/drskylovean鈥?/a>
====================================
Read the book:
Love will find you: 9 magnets to bring you and your soulmate together
By Kathryn Alice
http://www.kathrynalice.com/index.html
==================================
--http://thesecret.tv/index.html
Read the book, The SECRET(part about winning relationships)
==The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts
By Dr. Gary chapman
Wish you best.
ALWAYS REMEMBER LIFE HAS NO RULES.
finding your life partner entirely depends upon you.you see a guy near you ask in your mind is he the one???????????and thats how it goes.....there are no fixed place or time just be normal....bye
Why on earth are you so "Desperate" to find a life partner? Aren't you happy with your life ?
Men are available all over the world?
What is the problem?
Craigslist
see here nd there in ur circle u got ur life partner..
Please write your birth details for your answer
Pray to almight to God, he shall lead ya.
at walmarks
Kelly Ripa Says the Man Should Always Pay for Dinner? Do You Agree With Her?
-It's a debate that's practically as old as dating itself: When a man and a woman go out to dinner who should pay for the dinner?
According to Kelly Ripa, it's the guy. No matter what the situation is.
"We give birth. You pick up the check," the perky talk show host said on Friday.
Any feminist that disagrees with me, I am sorry, but it's gone ridiculous now."
Ripa's co-host Regis Philbin begged to differ, saying, "If she wants to pick it up fine,"
but Ripa countered, "I'm sure she doesn't want to pick it up."
As for us we're somewhere between Ripa and Philbin. Let's be honest: Women do like it when men pick up the check. Anyone who says otherwise is lying.
But every now and then, it's nice to give a dude a break from paying all the time. It's a woman's way of saying "I make my own money, too. And by the way, you're not buying me all of these dinners."
Isn't it. So do you think a man should pay for dinner every single time? Why or why not?
I want to know do you agree with Kelly Ripa?On the first date, yes its polite for the man to pick up the tab-- but after that if you continue seeing one another then she should at least chip in.I think on the first date, they should go dutch because if nothing ever happens after that I always feel like I owe him another date or something. After that it's really up the the couple. My husband payed for everything while we were dating (food wise) and I always felt so bad and offered so many times, the only time he let me up put the tab was on his birthday.
I do not agree with her. How silly. Especially someone in her position! I'm sure she probably makes more money than her husband, what if their finances are separate? Does she make him pay for every meal??
I wouldn't call myself a feminist but I'm a grown woman and I can pay for things too.
If the man asks the woman to accompany him for dinner, then HE pays.
if the woman ask the man to accompany her for dinner, then SHE pays.
AT ANY TIME, if the other person offers to pay -- let them!
No i don't agree with her. I have paid my way many times on a date and his on occasion. but if you going out then you might want to be prepared for picking up the check because you said it women like to be takin' care of
Yes , if the man pays for dinner and drinks the woman is obligated to have sex with him.
I agree .
If the woman pays ,she is off the hook 'til next time.
The person who extends the invitation should also pick up the check. If a guy asks out a girl, the guy should pay. And vice versa.
I like to pay for all dates. Old fashioned, I guess.
Sounds like Kelly is trying to make men out to be suckers !
I think you should
I demand the woman pick it up...after all, i picked HER up.
<------- Waiting for Boston to ask me out.
No, I don't think that should be a rule.
I do not agree.
When my husband and I were dating long, long ago (we'll be married 24 years next month), I was working and he was still a college student. I am a practical woman - why would a college student pay for dates over a person working one full and one part time job?
I paid for our dates when we went out and he planned very nice and inexpensive dates at his apartment or hiking etc. (he made dinner for me on many occasions).
I actually agree with you more than I do with her. I most of the time expect and want a man to pick up the check but sometimes it is sweet and considerate of a woman to pay for dinner too, especially once you are in an established relationship. I do not think it's ok for a woman to pay for dinner in the early stages of dating someone new, but offering to pay the tip or offering to buy him a few drinks after is a nice compromise. I also am no feminists. I like my doors being opened, my chairs being pulled out and as hard as I try sometimes I seriously just cannot open that damn mayonaise jar. Haha I think Marilyn Monroe said it best, "I don't mind living in a man's world as long as I can be a woman in it"
The person who does the asking for the dinner date should be obligated to pick up the tab, unless he, or she makes it understood up front that they expect the other to either pay or chip in. There is no reason today for these things to be dance around. If the guy asks and doesn't spring it on the girl until the bill is presented and then announces she is expected to either pay or contribute, that's inappropriate. If the guy asks if the girl wants to share dinner, that's another situation. These things shouldn't be a problem if handled properly.
This started from years back. the man was working and the female rarely worked for pay. So he had to pay the bill. Was a sign he could take care of her and provide.
In later years it has become a gentleman thing. I never dated any female and had any idea of her paying for things. Being shocked when date paid the check a few times.
My wife brought us dinner several times when we were dating. She worked at a restaurant and paid full charge for it.
My wife pays the check at times now, but she is paying wit hour money, married 20 years we do not have separate accounts.
According to Kelly Ripa, it's the guy. No matter what the situation is.
"We give birth. You pick up the check," the perky talk show host said on Friday.
Any feminist that disagrees with me, I am sorry, but it's gone ridiculous now."
Ripa's co-host Regis Philbin begged to differ, saying, "If she wants to pick it up fine,"
but Ripa countered, "I'm sure she doesn't want to pick it up."
As for us we're somewhere between Ripa and Philbin. Let's be honest: Women do like it when men pick up the check. Anyone who says otherwise is lying.
But every now and then, it's nice to give a dude a break from paying all the time. It's a woman's way of saying "I make my own money, too. And by the way, you're not buying me all of these dinners."
Isn't it. So do you think a man should pay for dinner every single time? Why or why not?
I want to know do you agree with Kelly Ripa?On the first date, yes its polite for the man to pick up the tab-- but after that if you continue seeing one another then she should at least chip in.I think on the first date, they should go dutch because if nothing ever happens after that I always feel like I owe him another date or something. After that it's really up the the couple. My husband payed for everything while we were dating (food wise) and I always felt so bad and offered so many times, the only time he let me up put the tab was on his birthday.
I do not agree with her. How silly. Especially someone in her position! I'm sure she probably makes more money than her husband, what if their finances are separate? Does she make him pay for every meal??
I wouldn't call myself a feminist but I'm a grown woman and I can pay for things too.
If the man asks the woman to accompany him for dinner, then HE pays.
if the woman ask the man to accompany her for dinner, then SHE pays.
AT ANY TIME, if the other person offers to pay -- let them!
No i don't agree with her. I have paid my way many times on a date and his on occasion. but if you going out then you might want to be prepared for picking up the check because you said it women like to be takin' care of
Yes , if the man pays for dinner and drinks the woman is obligated to have sex with him.
I agree .
If the woman pays ,she is off the hook 'til next time.
The person who extends the invitation should also pick up the check. If a guy asks out a girl, the guy should pay. And vice versa.
I like to pay for all dates. Old fashioned, I guess.
Sounds like Kelly is trying to make men out to be suckers !
I think you should
I demand the woman pick it up...after all, i picked HER up.
<------- Waiting for Boston to ask me out.
No, I don't think that should be a rule.
I do not agree.
When my husband and I were dating long, long ago (we'll be married 24 years next month), I was working and he was still a college student. I am a practical woman - why would a college student pay for dates over a person working one full and one part time job?
I paid for our dates when we went out and he planned very nice and inexpensive dates at his apartment or hiking etc. (he made dinner for me on many occasions).
I actually agree with you more than I do with her. I most of the time expect and want a man to pick up the check but sometimes it is sweet and considerate of a woman to pay for dinner too, especially once you are in an established relationship. I do not think it's ok for a woman to pay for dinner in the early stages of dating someone new, but offering to pay the tip or offering to buy him a few drinks after is a nice compromise. I also am no feminists. I like my doors being opened, my chairs being pulled out and as hard as I try sometimes I seriously just cannot open that damn mayonaise jar. Haha I think Marilyn Monroe said it best, "I don't mind living in a man's world as long as I can be a woman in it"
The person who does the asking for the dinner date should be obligated to pick up the tab, unless he, or she makes it understood up front that they expect the other to either pay or chip in. There is no reason today for these things to be dance around. If the guy asks and doesn't spring it on the girl until the bill is presented and then announces she is expected to either pay or contribute, that's inappropriate. If the guy asks if the girl wants to share dinner, that's another situation. These things shouldn't be a problem if handled properly.
This started from years back. the man was working and the female rarely worked for pay. So he had to pay the bill. Was a sign he could take care of her and provide.
In later years it has become a gentleman thing. I never dated any female and had any idea of her paying for things. Being shocked when date paid the check a few times.
My wife brought us dinner several times when we were dating. She worked at a restaurant and paid full charge for it.
My wife pays the check at times now, but she is paying wit hour money, married 20 years we do not have separate accounts.
My husband sleeps all the time..is something wrong with him?
-my husband is in his 30's and he gets home pretty early from his job..problem is that he always wants to lie down instead of sitting or he always falls asleep...if he could sleep every minute of the day he would do it..worst scenario he falls asleep every night without spending enough time with me...we/ve been married for like over a year..is this normal or is something the matter??Depression
Diabetes
Heart Disease
High Blood Pressure
Low Testosterone Level
All of these come to mind.
He NEEDS a complete physical, including blood work up, to find out IF anything is wrong, or maybe he just likes to sleep.
Schedule an appointment with his doctor, and make sure he keeps it. YOU drive, and go in with him. if He doesn't ask about the tiredness, then YOU ask.
I do wish you could tell us more and that way it would be easier to answer your question because we don't know what type of job he does, how far is his job to home, does he drive or does he travel on a public transport and if so, how long does it take him?
Most likely, you've got to seek medical advice.
If it's nothing to do with his daily activities there's a good chance that's it's actually a sleeping disorder. You should get to a doctor if you can. http://www.webmd.com/sleep-disorders/gui鈥?/a> has a wealth of information. It may also have to do with stress, depression, or diet. Talk to him about how he's feeling and go from there.
Let him get to the bottom of it, it could be bad sleep at night, fatigue, or feeling down. Either way it needs to be corrected, it's not normal honey
He could be bored, depressed, escaping from something or it could have physical causes. Some medications also cause fatigue.
get his blood work done, lack of testosterone, thyroid, vitiman levels low could be one or more. Will make you tired and with out help or meds, will not get better. also sleep disorder. Is he snoring?
See a DR.
maybe his job is too physical and just gets tired. talk to him and find out what is bothering him.
Get him sexually active ;)
Some people are like that. You could have him bring it up to his doctor and get him tested but I doubt it's serious. Maybe his job is overly stressful?
something is the matter. You're a completely boring wife. why else would he want to sleep instead of talking to you?
maybe its probably his diet. but you as his wife need to get his attention too. men need to be given attention cause if they dont they look it somewhere else and vice versa
Either he's bored, tired, stressed, or has nothing better to do.
people don't sleep out of spite-- it is a natural phenomenon, it must mean he is tired. let him sleep.
depending on his job he could be very physically drained
Is his job labor intensive?
It's too long to go into here, but please do a web search on "sleep apnea".
it's normal
At least you know where he is at and what he is doing....
vitum c and b 12 or b 3
gee that could mean alot..
are you guys active alot???
depression? umm maybe hes really tired..
best regards
Diabetes
Heart Disease
High Blood Pressure
Low Testosterone Level
All of these come to mind.
He NEEDS a complete physical, including blood work up, to find out IF anything is wrong, or maybe he just likes to sleep.
Schedule an appointment with his doctor, and make sure he keeps it. YOU drive, and go in with him. if He doesn't ask about the tiredness, then YOU ask.
I do wish you could tell us more and that way it would be easier to answer your question because we don't know what type of job he does, how far is his job to home, does he drive or does he travel on a public transport and if so, how long does it take him?
Most likely, you've got to seek medical advice.
If it's nothing to do with his daily activities there's a good chance that's it's actually a sleeping disorder. You should get to a doctor if you can. http://www.webmd.com/sleep-disorders/gui鈥?/a> has a wealth of information. It may also have to do with stress, depression, or diet. Talk to him about how he's feeling and go from there.
Let him get to the bottom of it, it could be bad sleep at night, fatigue, or feeling down. Either way it needs to be corrected, it's not normal honey
He could be bored, depressed, escaping from something or it could have physical causes. Some medications also cause fatigue.
get his blood work done, lack of testosterone, thyroid, vitiman levels low could be one or more. Will make you tired and with out help or meds, will not get better. also sleep disorder. Is he snoring?
See a DR.
maybe his job is too physical and just gets tired. talk to him and find out what is bothering him.
Get him sexually active ;)
Some people are like that. You could have him bring it up to his doctor and get him tested but I doubt it's serious. Maybe his job is overly stressful?
something is the matter. You're a completely boring wife. why else would he want to sleep instead of talking to you?
maybe its probably his diet. but you as his wife need to get his attention too. men need to be given attention cause if they dont they look it somewhere else and vice versa
Either he's bored, tired, stressed, or has nothing better to do.
people don't sleep out of spite-- it is a natural phenomenon, it must mean he is tired. let him sleep.
depending on his job he could be very physically drained
Is his job labor intensive?
It's too long to go into here, but please do a web search on "sleep apnea".
it's normal
At least you know where he is at and what he is doing....
vitum c and b 12 or b 3
gee that could mean alot..
are you guys active alot???
depression? umm maybe hes really tired..
best regards
Do u think my mom is cheating?
-My mom went to another state to help with this lady bc my mom watched her. And her nephew is in charge of this old lady an stuff so theyd talk abt her and all that. But since returning my mom has been texting a lot and so I went through her phone. And in two texts he called her babe and Hun. And he told her about this song and now shes been listening to it a lot. And before they used to text just about the lady and now it's what they're doing too. And they put a lot of xoxoxoxo in their messages and tell each other they love each other and call each other my love. And they talk about how they miss each other. And today I read my mom can't stand 3000 miles apart. It's not like anything dirty but they're texting constantly and saying sweet things.If your mom is married she definitely is cheating. Cheating does not have to just be physical. Talking like that to someone outside of your relationship is cheating. It sounds like they probably had relations when they were together as well. I would bring the phone to your father next time you see these types of texts. He deserves to know.
Yes!
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It depends maybe she's just trying to help them out. From what you said, I don't think so.
i think it might be mother and nephew love
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Yeppers
It depends maybe she's just trying to help them out. From what you said, I don't think so.
i think it might be mother and nephew love
This is the third time he cheats on me what do I do?
-This will be the 3rd time my husband cheats I know I should of left him the first time and I did he always begs me back u know when u love someone u dont want to let go but im getting tired of this I feel like I cant take it im stuck what do I do?it is hard , but leave him, i was in the same situation, and i always said that i would not let someone treat me like that, but i let him treat me like that for 3 years , i believed the promises etc because i loved him, and the worst thing was when he finally left me for the other woman last year, i blamed myself. Looking back now i wish i had stood up for myself and gone with my head and not my heart and kicked him out the first time.. I would have coped better being the one to end it rather than living in false hope.
It will be hard but if you have the support you can do it.
its time to leave him and if you are the type that wants to work it out in her relationship then i would say do what you need to do for your life to work!. if you have tried all you can try then its time to leave or suffer the mental/emotional damage that will happen to you if you continue to allow this person to hurt you.
you will never know how to trust another person if this is what your mind has to get use to. talk to your husband and she what it is that he needs and what you can do to help him and let him know your needs and what he can do to help you. and if this dosent work im sorry to say that when you have cheaters, they dislocate themselves from you emotionally along time before they actually do the cheating to make it easier or to justify why it is that they are doing it.
its time to get into a support group and individual counseling so that you have a way to fight back in all of this. dont feel bad about the cheating because millions of people cheat and its for many reasons and the number one reason is that they are unhappy with themselves,
if you have children begin to introduce them to other activities while you sort this thing out. If you are a mother who relies on her husbands income, its time to learn how to work and start saving your money as often as you can spare it. begin to live your life like to are single and this will help to transitions into the real world
i tried to give asmuch information as i knew but you can email me if you need more
Wait until the 4th time and ask us this question again, and keep asking us until you take our advice.. or simply take our advise now and start moving forward.
- Take everything you cherish the most out of the house and put it safe in storage
- Get a phone in your name
- Open up a bank account in just your name only
- Get a PO box and have all your mail sent there
- Start stashing some cash - not just in you bank account - but CASH
- Start looking for a new place to rent and save for first and last months rent
- Do all of the above first
- Find a good lawyer - do not pay for this lawyer with cash - use your bank account, you will want the paper trail
- File for divorce
-Remember to eat
- Take one day at a time, this will be hard and trying
- utilize your resources - it's ok to ask for help
- Finalize the divorce
- Again, remember to eat, you CAN do this
- Work on rebuilding yourself and your life
- Never look back at this cheating man ever again
- Remember to hang onto the perfect 10 as a beautiful woman that you are and don't let anyone take that 10 from you
- Do not jump from the fire into the frying pan by getting into another relationship because your afraid you can not make it without a man - you CAN and you WILL make it
- When the time is right and you have found yourself again - learn to trust and have faith in yourself that you are a wonderful being who is deserving of a wonderful, loving relationship
Third time? I hate to say it but, maybe you've only caught him 3 times. It's seems less like a mistake and more like a lifestyle. It's his fault, not yours. He ruined your relationship. I'm pretty old fashioned and I believe there are only 2 legit reasons to get divorced. 1. He's abusive. 2. He cheats on you.
Stay strong. It's time to move on and find someone who will treat you right.
Unfortunately if you take him back all the time, he will expect it and keep cheating. However, I have heard of guys stopping to rebuild their marriage. You don't want to live with false hope.
Maybe you can show him what life is like without you and take a break, but dont let him know its a break.
You're right, you should have left the first time, and definitely the second time.
You grow some balls and pack your stuff and walk out the door, and tell him you refuse to be his doormat any longer. Get a pep talk from friends and family, who can help you find the strength to leave and will be there for you once it's over.
And DO NOT GO BACK no matter what he says. He's no good for you. You deserve better!
Teresa the word doormat comes to mind ?
You allow him to do this to you ? you keep taking him back
You need to say enough is enough
This guy needs a wake up call let him know you mean it
Stop being such a pushover
You are not "stuck" you are just to scared to do what you already know you need to do; leave him.
He keeps cheating because you keep taking him back.
Grow a backbone, toss all his stuff outside and leave the jerk!
Things change...people do...you have to accept that and realize he doesn't deserve you, he promised to be in a closed relationship and he didn't learn one thing about it...teach him a lesson and never let him get close to you again.
You need to get a backbone and dump him. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Divorce him and move on. There really are men out there that will treat you right and will not cheat.
He will not change only you can. Leave him and stop putting up with his crap.
u leave that bastar* and never look back...if he love you he wouldnt keep putting you through this pain...find somebody that appreciates you like you appreciate them
LEAVE HIS BUTT. He is going to keep doing it cuz he knows your always take him back. My advice leave him and move on with your life.
counseling or divorce
Tell him if he cheats 10 more times you might have to call his Mom
LEAVE HIM
3rd time. What's up?
cheat on him
since you dont know how to leave
Honestly,I would of left him the first time. :(
It will be hard but if you have the support you can do it.
its time to leave him and if you are the type that wants to work it out in her relationship then i would say do what you need to do for your life to work!. if you have tried all you can try then its time to leave or suffer the mental/emotional damage that will happen to you if you continue to allow this person to hurt you.
you will never know how to trust another person if this is what your mind has to get use to. talk to your husband and she what it is that he needs and what you can do to help him and let him know your needs and what he can do to help you. and if this dosent work im sorry to say that when you have cheaters, they dislocate themselves from you emotionally along time before they actually do the cheating to make it easier or to justify why it is that they are doing it.
its time to get into a support group and individual counseling so that you have a way to fight back in all of this. dont feel bad about the cheating because millions of people cheat and its for many reasons and the number one reason is that they are unhappy with themselves,
if you have children begin to introduce them to other activities while you sort this thing out. If you are a mother who relies on her husbands income, its time to learn how to work and start saving your money as often as you can spare it. begin to live your life like to are single and this will help to transitions into the real world
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Wait until the 4th time and ask us this question again, and keep asking us until you take our advice.. or simply take our advise now and start moving forward.
- Take everything you cherish the most out of the house and put it safe in storage
- Get a phone in your name
- Open up a bank account in just your name only
- Get a PO box and have all your mail sent there
- Start stashing some cash - not just in you bank account - but CASH
- Start looking for a new place to rent and save for first and last months rent
- Do all of the above first
- Find a good lawyer - do not pay for this lawyer with cash - use your bank account, you will want the paper trail
- File for divorce
-Remember to eat
- Take one day at a time, this will be hard and trying
- utilize your resources - it's ok to ask for help
- Finalize the divorce
- Again, remember to eat, you CAN do this
- Work on rebuilding yourself and your life
- Never look back at this cheating man ever again
- Remember to hang onto the perfect 10 as a beautiful woman that you are and don't let anyone take that 10 from you
- Do not jump from the fire into the frying pan by getting into another relationship because your afraid you can not make it without a man - you CAN and you WILL make it
- When the time is right and you have found yourself again - learn to trust and have faith in yourself that you are a wonderful being who is deserving of a wonderful, loving relationship
Third time? I hate to say it but, maybe you've only caught him 3 times. It's seems less like a mistake and more like a lifestyle. It's his fault, not yours. He ruined your relationship. I'm pretty old fashioned and I believe there are only 2 legit reasons to get divorced. 1. He's abusive. 2. He cheats on you.
Stay strong. It's time to move on and find someone who will treat you right.
Unfortunately if you take him back all the time, he will expect it and keep cheating. However, I have heard of guys stopping to rebuild their marriage. You don't want to live with false hope.
Maybe you can show him what life is like without you and take a break, but dont let him know its a break.
You're right, you should have left the first time, and definitely the second time.
You grow some balls and pack your stuff and walk out the door, and tell him you refuse to be his doormat any longer. Get a pep talk from friends and family, who can help you find the strength to leave and will be there for you once it's over.
And DO NOT GO BACK no matter what he says. He's no good for you. You deserve better!
Teresa the word doormat comes to mind ?
You allow him to do this to you ? you keep taking him back
You need to say enough is enough
This guy needs a wake up call let him know you mean it
Stop being such a pushover
You are not "stuck" you are just to scared to do what you already know you need to do; leave him.
He keeps cheating because you keep taking him back.
Grow a backbone, toss all his stuff outside and leave the jerk!
Things change...people do...you have to accept that and realize he doesn't deserve you, he promised to be in a closed relationship and he didn't learn one thing about it...teach him a lesson and never let him get close to you again.
You need to get a backbone and dump him. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Divorce him and move on. There really are men out there that will treat you right and will not cheat.
He will not change only you can. Leave him and stop putting up with his crap.
u leave that bastar* and never look back...if he love you he wouldnt keep putting you through this pain...find somebody that appreciates you like you appreciate them
LEAVE HIS BUTT. He is going to keep doing it cuz he knows your always take him back. My advice leave him and move on with your life.
counseling or divorce
Tell him if he cheats 10 more times you might have to call his Mom
LEAVE HIM
3rd time. What's up?
cheat on him
since you dont know how to leave
Honestly,I would of left him the first time. :(
What more can a guy do?
-I'm at a crossroads.....how about you? First off....I am married....don't let this part scare you off.
Things are pretty much done after this past weekend. After trying for years to make someone happy and doing everything that was asked.....it's never good enough. Wouldn't you want a guy that's a great cook, does dishes, scrubs floors, vacuum's, does some laundry, and is a handy man that can fix anything? I have a great job, professional, tall, fit, love kissing, touching.....You can't make someone be happy, you can only let them be happy. You kept up your end. Don't be afraid to move on.
Yes yes yes, so whats the catch
Things are pretty much done after this past weekend. After trying for years to make someone happy and doing everything that was asked.....it's never good enough. Wouldn't you want a guy that's a great cook, does dishes, scrubs floors, vacuum's, does some laundry, and is a handy man that can fix anything? I have a great job, professional, tall, fit, love kissing, touching.....You can't make someone be happy, you can only let them be happy. You kept up your end. Don't be afraid to move on.
Yes yes yes, so whats the catch
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