-I don't know how to bring it up. I am really upset, I feel cheated on. I also notice on his computer he was searching "trina's a**, big ****, etc" I was really upset. he has cheated on me a lot, but he is trying to make it right. and I just saw the PAID PORN yesterday.
What should I do, I feel like he cheated on me.
we been together for over 2 years.Nooooo! Don't think like that!!
From a personal view point if he is horny and your not around and is lacking imagination...
I can see where your coming from, w*nking over another girl an all but I can promise you 95% of guys look at porn - especially if they're young 30 or younger.
I have actually talked about this with my friends chick - around her he cant look at anyone or else the claws come out lol... she makes her own porn for him coz she realizes guys are guys... if your finding it hard to bring up the situation then you could always make your own solo video then show it to him.
He might be like oh wow kinda thing.. then you can say I made you this coz i feel cheated on by you watching it etc.
It still might not work though - new material would always be needed. You might not wanna here it but from a god dam horny guys perspective I would carry on watching it, i'd just be secretive about it. But then I wouldn't be happy about having to be secretive about it.. i believe honesty in a relationship is the way forward..
Oh yea.. slap him for paying for it!!! XNXX is just one of many loololool.
porn is a very normal and natural thing, dont feel cheated on regarding the porn. It is no reflection on you. I know many men and women who use it. It doesnt make him a bad person or fancy u anyless i promise! he will have used it before you and will probably continue too, the underlying issue here seems to be the fact he cheated on you previously, talk to him about ur trust issues, he may be working on them but communication is the key... :) if your ucomfortable he will explain why to you, and that its not a reflection on you, it will put ur mind at ease. Dont fly off the handle when u ask him, just sit him down and ask him to explain it to you, why he used it and then talk about it.
you really need to just sit him down and talk about it. Tell him you found his porn and you want to talk about it. Don't listen to these woman who think its "normal" for guys to look at other woman like this... they say that if you dont let your guy watch porn then you are insecure but thats bull ****.
If you dont like it you dont like it .. porn can become addictive just like a drug and plenty of people are for or against drugs so you need to have the porn talk with your boyfriend and see if he is willing to give it up for you or not.
Don't take any notice of all the "know it all" females that tell you it is normal for all males to watch porn. If it is there in front of their face, yeah, then they will watch it. But for someone who is in a relationship to pay for it ---- he has a problem.
Therefore you have a problem as well. If he is such a type you would be far better off giving him the flick & finding someone normal down the track.
He can't be too bright - he got caught out!
talk to him about it, if he has cheated on you a number of times in the past its only a matter of time till he does it again. soon the porn will not be enough and he will want more.
once a cheater, always a cheater.
sorry
You realise 90% of men masterbate . How many of that percent watches porn ? The majority easily . Don't feel cheated on by this
I agree that it feels like he is cheating. You should be enough for him. If you talk to him and he doesnt stop..you know what to do!
it is a legal activity.
does not make him a bad guy or than he thinks any less of you
i don't care much for porn,but,i have nothing aganst it
people watch porn all the time. thats definatly not a big deal. of course people paying for porn thats just stupid! but siriosly talk it out if you think this is an issue
You feel cheated because buddy paid for porn tell to go to some free wabsites then
You say: "He has cheated on me a lot"... sorry girl but, why the **** are you still with him? For the love of God, have some pride!
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