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2011年8月1日星期一

Shall I Break Up With Him?

-Say, we're engaged for almost a year now. He has no control of his homesickness so he leaves whenever he misses home. However I'm studying overseas too, I have to control my homesickness and I've never left him here alone. I'd love to live with him in his country but you see I have school to finish.



This time he's been gone for half a year already (he works in his country). He promised to come to me once he's made decent amount of money. He just told me that he wants to go to japan to join his neighbours' world trip for 2 weeks or so. I said it seems like you have more than enough money now shouldn't you come here instead or spending on a trip to japan?



He kept saying it's only 2 weeks, but he's been gone for half a year now. I' have a very high level of tolerance for all these separation for 2 years since we met and I think he's just pushing it.



Shall I break up with him if he insists of going to japan?Find someone closer to home...

Long distance relationships are too difficult...

To be honest, it sounds like he prefers being elsewhere than with you,

and keeps making excuses to go other places...

Move on....Life is to short...!Obviously -_- I hate when a person that says they supposedly loves you does something like that. If he wants to marry you, instead of going to a tour he should be with you especially after 6 bloody months apart. However ask him what the tour is etc and see if it's something more than just a trip to him. Then make your decision
I wouldn't break up right away, but instead tell him that he's pushing it and that you miss him, and that you can only wait for so long, especially since he said two weeks and it's been half a year now. If it continues then yes.
I think you should break up with him regardless. Apparently spending time with you isn't the slightest bit important to him. I wouldn't put much stock into this relationship, find someone that makes you happy and you get to see.
according to him - he is free to do what he chooses - while you sit and wait for him



I don't think he has any intention of coming back to you.
I would move on to someone who will be around more often. Or, just wait until you're done with school....focus on your education and career. There will always be time for love later.
If you question that, then yes break up with him! OMG!! 2yrs? That's too much.

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