Is this considered cheating? Do I end the relationship?

-My boyfriend of 15 months told me yesterday, out of anger and to hurt me, that 4 months ago he made out with a girl when he was at the bar with his friends. I'm 23, he is 25.



It was 4 months ago, he left right after and didn't get her number, and he's now begging for forgiveness and saying how big of a mistake it was. He said he was hurt from seeing me messaging another guy on Facebook, and that's what lead him to do it (STUPID.)



I am hurt, and I hate picturing him making out with another girl.



He admits it was wrong, and says he will never do anything like that again, but will not admit it is cheating..



Should I end this relationship, or should I suck it up and try to move on??I would defiantly call that cheating. Only you can decide what is best for you. I am concerned about his overall character. The fact he waited 4 months to tell instead of coming clean right away and then using the information to hurt you screams trouble. You can鈥檛 control who you love and it really hard, but maybe this is an opportunity to get out before he hurts you more. If he doesn鈥檛 consider cheating what will stop him from doing it again? I am so sorry you are going through this.
The definition of cheating is not up to the person who commits the act. It's different to everyone, but I believe that cheating is anything that you wouldn't do right in front of your significant other. He did tell you about it instead of you finding out, so I'd give him another chance. However, I'd keep a very close eye on him since he did it out of jealousy.
It depends what exactly you wrote to that other guy on facebook. If you were flirting with him or inviting him to meet, well... That's not very good. Oh, and by the way - it might be that hes lying about that other girl at the bar. He might have told you that just because he wanted to hurt you. You hurt me - I hurt you.
I don't think I'd be able to forgive someone for that. Especially when he doesn't consider it cheating. That's ridiculous. If he did it once, he can easily do it again.
Both your faults. Stay with him if he wants to stay with you. Embrace the fact that he came back to you after he met another girl
he told you out of anger and to hurt you - problem solved - let him go - he's not worth your time
You cannot have a strong solid partnership when one of you purposely hurts the other. If he was upset about something you did, he should have manned up and talked about it. What if you do something else he doesn't like...he'll use that as an excuse to sleep around or whatever. I don't think you want to spend your time walking on eggshells so your guy won't cheat on you. He's simply immature.

You're too young to stick with this guy. There's too many more wonderful guys out there. Just enjoy your 20's and have fun, meet new people, make new friends, finish your education, get your career started, and don't put too much emphasis on any relationships. You'll end up with a great man by just being yourself and doing what you enjoy.



And as for cheating or not, anything that you wouldn't do in front of your partner is being unfaithful, simple as that. I would leave my husband if he made out with another woman, no matter what.