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2011年8月1日星期一

How to keep our husband far from mobile and internet, becoz they don't pay attention towards there wife ?

-mobile and internet is like a toy for every one.......but after getting married they should be far from this stuff...am i right....You're right. Addiction of anything is dangerous & misuse of the same curtailing the time of loving relationship between husband & wife is more frustrating. Uses must be limited only. A wife can give her husband much better pleasures than a toy. A married man & woman MUST know that while being present at home together, the spouse is MUCH MORE IMPORTANT THAN ANYTHING ELSE. Other works can be cancelled or postponed but deep need of husband-wife love, affection & other legitimate needs of a human body, mind & soul, a regular necessity like regular food should never at all be curtailed at any cost, by basic concept, meaning, definition, philosophy & system of MARRIGE. Those who do not follow that standard principle, do not know the real meaning of marriage & marry only thinking that only marrying by reaching of 'age' of marriage is sufficient & life afterwards ends giving them freedom to do anything arbitrarily without asking or taking logical permission of the spouse. That is NOT correct. Playing with the two things for long periods(addiction) is a DISEASE which must be discouraged by all possible means such that relation improves instead of getting deteriorated. Teach husband in detail sweetly & softly the full responsibility of a husband towards his wife in ALL NEEDS of a married life & vice versa. Marriages break too by excessive use of the devices. If anything is used in excess, 'Shaitan' is acting in between good relations between the two. In a good marriage, mutual attraction, deep love, affection & intimacy MUST INCREASE day by day but in your case, reverse is happening b coz of his such habits. Explain him suitably in sweetest & softest words only 'after' bringing him in good mood. Plan holiday trips every week or fortnight at some romantic & beautiful places, a little away from your place of residence. Take him there at some secluded places where you both can tell whatever you both have in hearts. Mostly, switching off the devices helps.

You CAN NOT & SOULD NOT FIGHT with your husband. Tactful persuation is the best way out.

Give him the book : 'Tohfatul Uroos' by Mohd Mahdi Istanbuli. Read & let him listen from your mouth.do something which is more interesting to him, if u r a bore, he will go net to get some thrill...

be a thrill and do something sexy
I didn't understand your question."Our husband"? do all you have a combined husband?.I really pity him.
No. Everyone should be able to enjoy these things in moderation. If you act jealous over it, its only a turn off.
now it is inevitable ...irresistable

hence better tune to it

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