Please Help ......................?

-Me and My husband detail -

My age 鈥?23. I am a house wife.

His age - 29 years. He is Deputy Superintendent of Police.

We are married on 23rd April this year.



I am fair and in good shape. He is handsome height 6 feet 1 inches and very very sweet. He loves me deeply and I love him madly. But evertything is not correct it our married life. We have not sex single time till now.



His father died from Cancer in 2004 (He was in college that time). After 2 month his Grandfather also died. After that a lot of accidents happened in his family. His whole family ruined financially. But due to his and his elder brother's (1.5 year elder) hard work both of them got reputed jobs and somehow they survived.



He always thinks something but whenever I want to talk him he always tells me that he does not want to talk about past. (I am 100% sure he always thinks about his past life). I want to share but he politly refuses.



He had a very-very beautiful girl-friend (I am nowhere around her). But a few years ago he refused to marry her because of her nature (as he said me on the 3rd night) now she is married to a Doctor and living in nearby district.



Just after marriage I told him "you married me because of money". Actually I always thought that guys only love money and I belongs to a good rich family. His family's finanical condtions is not like ours (reason described above). But the truth is that he and his family members really hates dowry very much. He has not received a single penny from my parents, no car etc. He was very-very-very sad that evening. I had hurt him with my words. I told him sorry for 10 times (for my stupid talk).



I always cry when he is in office. Is it possible to correct my mistake. Should I die.No you should not die. Marriage is full of mistakes and what you both need is communication. He may not want to talk about his past and that is up to him. He will talk when he is ready. Marriage is about communication and he needs to talk with you. This was just an outburst and not the end of the world. He needs to forgive you.
Why should you die? To err is human but you have revealed your thoughts and opinion without verifying facts or even after you knew the facts that he did not take a single penny from your parents. He will need time to recover from your insults and you have to wait. Please improve your thinking process and learn to respect others as much as you respect yourself.
counseling an option?
please stop to think all this and seduce him, no man can run from this, and you know this better...

Do some jalwa and jaadu on him with your charm and see him, he will surely fall in love...



it has to start the first time and then things will settle automatically.



Please please do something constructive, to seduce him, take help from friends to know more...