Why does my wife despise my only daughter?

-from my first marriage i have a nice considerate daughter 42 years old , my 2ND wife cant stand the face that she inherited my first house after her mom passed on and my daughter doesn't have to work a full days week when shes a beautician and makes a good buck, so when we all go out to eat my 2ND wife wants my daughter to pay for everything for all of us ,I say whats the difference if I pay for all of us ,I hardly see my daughter maybe 1 time a month.how can I stay out of the middle of these 2?

useYou and your daughter should accept the way your wife is. Both of u should not say anything bad or against her. You give you're wife a big hug and a gentle kiss and tell her it came from your daughter....end of conversation.that's it. Say nothing else. do this all the time.. Your daugter should also do the same thing. she should always show truce. Being nice and never say anything negative to your wife. And in TIME ,,, situation will change according to your will.
ouch - tough one - she is jealous - can't figure out why



next time tell your wife if you can't afford to treat a meal out once in awhile maybe we should stay home and you cook . . .she won't like that idea either . . .



I think your wife feels slighted - you don't take her out to dinner - just the two of you, do you? I think maybe she thinks you spend more $ on your daughter than on her . . .
Maybe a marriage counselor can give both of you some good advice.
these is natural.......you have to suffer a lot...becoz you married to 2nd......so now saza and maza both......hhahhaa