Is divorce a good solution ?

-**** QIt all depends on the circumstances. If there is abuse, then yes. If you cannot resolve your differences then it may be the only solution. It is a means to the end. You want to be very sure this is what you want. Divorce is a lot harder than people think. It is painful to all involved even if you are the one asking for the divorce. It is a means to an end.
In 99% of the cases, no it isn't. All it does is destroy the whole idea of the institution of marriage. I was raised there are 3 legitimate reasons for divorce- abuse, adultery or abandonment. That's it, and even in those cases, you should at least try to work it out. All these BS reasons people get divorced over are ridiculous, and can very much be resolved if both parties stopped being so stubborn and stopped focusing on "what's in it for me" and looked at "what's best for me and my spouse". I hate the whole concept of divorce. You should have taken a step back from the "fairy tale wedding plans" and taken a closer look at who you were marrying. If you are incapable of maintaining a long term relationship, then dont get married. If more people did that, and actually acted like mature adults within marriage, the divorce rate wouldn't be so high. Of course there are cases of the abused wife or the chronic cheater where divorce is the only option to improve the life of the innocent party. It shouldn't be a joyous event nor something to celebrate, or really even talked about. It's just one of those tough things in life that must be done in those cases. Sadly, people divorce for stupid reasons and then go out and actually CELEBRATE it! It makes me sick, marriage is suppose to be for life, and in most failed marriages, it easily could have been.
You have to think of the situation you were put in and how this will affect your kids. You also have to think about can you see that person getting married to someone else. Flip a coin... don't decide on what it lands on decide on which side you want it to land on when you're flipping it.
For me it was liberating! Once I knew I couldn't fix the huge problems in our marriage and that I had exhausted everything. Once I realized that I didn't want to spend the rest of my life crying and sad. I left. I am so happy now.
To what? It all depends on the problem.



Is it a good solution because your wife nags you? Probably not.



Is it a good solution because your wife cheats on you with multiple partner? Maybe



See how that works?
If all else fails, then yes. I don't know your situation, but if you have honestly tried everything to fix the problem(s), and you are truly unhappy then it may be the best thing for you.
Depends on your situation. In my case, it was the best option and I would never go back.
Sadly sometimes.