I sent him a sarcastic text, he took it the wrong way..do you think what I said was uncalled for?

-I have been texting this divorced guy for about 3 weeks, we met twice. It was all very fast, very heated...he was pushy saying he wanted to date me exclusively and I kept saying I wasn't ready. We used to text each other NONSTOP all day, everyday..



Then one time we were supposed to hang-out and I blew him off about 3 times already saying I had to work an extra shift. He said he understood, no big deal. But his texts were becoming less and less frequent....then there was one day when we did not text each other AT ALL. The next day I saw he was tagged on facebook hugging up on another girl!!!!



So when he text me the next day asking me how my day was etc, I mentioned how I had a dream about him (which I did) but that I didn't remember anything about it. He then txt "Oh so u are dreaming about me now, huh? ;) " and I was still pissed about him going out w some girl so I text back "Don't flatter yourself, obviously there was nothing memorable about if I cant remember any details" and then he txt back "yeah, u are right"

I never wrote anything back.



Then 2 days later I text him asking whats up and he never text back! Do you think it was because of what I last told him? Was that mean to say? I was angry though .. what do you guys think is up? Advice? thanksIt has nothing to do with the text.



It has to do with wasting his time . The idea of the texting back and forth was to lay the ground work for dating.



When it became apparent that you were just wasting his time he lost interest .Honestly and I really don't want to sound mean, I would have backed off from you also. Too many conditions, too much work, didn't suggest alternative times to get together and then you snapped at him. He just got out of a bad marriage, I am certain he doesn't want another bad one.
You are the one who didn't want to date him exclusively and was blowing him off, so you have no right to be mad at him for seeing other women. That text was bitchy and cold. I wouldn't want to date you either.
You didn't want to be exclusive, you blew him off repeatedly, you got pissed off when he was with someone else, and then were nasty to him on top. I wouldn't text you anymore either.
he was trying to get you into bed with him and then you blew him off so he found someone else to try to play - consider yourself lucky and keep him out of your life . . .
I think you should get a grip as you have only met this guy twice!! you don't even know him, you are sounding desperate
As ye sow so shall ye weep?