-Me and My husband detail -
My age 鈥?23. I am a housewife.
His age - 29 years. He is Deputy Superintendent of Police.
We are married on 23rd April this year.
I am fair and in good shape. He is handsome height 6 feet 1 inches and very very sweet. He loves me deeply and I love him madly. But evertything is not correct it our married life. We have not sex single time till now.
His father died from Cancer in 2004 (He was in college that time). After 2 month his Grandfather also died. After that a lot of accidents happened in his family. His whole family ruined financially. But due to his and his elder brother's (1.5 year elder) hard work both of them got reputed jobs and somehow they survived.
He always thinks something but whenever I want to talk him he always tells me that he does not want to talk about past. (I am 100% sure he always thinks about his past life). I want to share but he politly refuses.
He had a very-very beautiful girl-friend (I am nowhere around her). But a few years ago he refused to marry her because of her nature (as he said me on the 3rd night) now she is married to a Doctor and living in nearby district.
Just after marriage I told him "you married me because of money". Actually I always thought that guys only love money and I belongs to a good rich family. His family's finanical condtions is not like ours (reason described above). But the truth is that he and his family members really hates dowry very much. He has not received a single penny from my parents, no car etc. He was very-very-very sad that evening. I had hurt him with my words. I told him sorry for 10 times (for my stupid talk) and he smiled and said Its OK.
I always cry when he is in office. Is it possible to correct my mistake. Should I die.You could explain that at the begining of your marriage you feared that he loved his gf more than he could ever love anybody else because she was so beautiful but that now you have learnt a lot and you realise that he loves you as a person. He should understand this and should be able to forgive you
hi,,,,, have patient, every thing will be alright, don't be emotional so soon, give love to him ,care him, respect him, you will get success in your life soon....dieing is not the solution.....be brave and handle it all politely.
wish you best ....
The last line made me laugh. Why the hell shud u think of death !!! May b what happened to his family daunts him. Give him more care, love & slowly attract him towards sex. If everything fails go for counselling.
He may be gay and using your marriage as a ruse ??
I dunno, sounds like something is wrong. If he doesnt wanna talk then maybe find some therapist?
You not mentioning how long you have been married...
but if you don't have a sex life with your husband, that seems very odd.
I also don't understand why you married him if he isn't willing to talk
about his past... That to me is a big red flag... What is he so secretive...?
When you say, should I die... Why would you want to die..?
If you have thoughts of suicide.... seek professional help...!~
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I think that you should try to talk him gently. You know if you want you can melt the stone then this human is what. Try to talk him gently if he wants or let it go . Your dedication will help him come out of the situation. I do not think that he has not intention for sex but he had girl friend. So try to be calm and silent. Silence speaks many a times. Or else consult a psychologist. Wait for some time and you will be releived . If possible consult a good astrologer also.
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