Is it true that if you treat your mom bad you'll treat your wife bad?

-My mom is very illogical and kind of crazy. She gets in fits easily and won't pay attention and when i try to reason with her she shuts me down and i get really pissed and sometimes i blow up on her. I also sometimes nag and get pissed and blow up randomly but i realize this is bad and if its very hurtful or a really bad blowup i always apologize the same day- and i mean it. My little brother is also the same way so is my stepdad. I'm 17. Does that mean i'll treat my wife like crap too or is it just my mom's personality?it is just the absolutely the true fact