-JUst gotten out of a relationship where this guy promised he would never leave me. I meet this great guy on the internet & he is really interested in me, but I ' m scared of being heartbroken again . Plz help me I actually like him too. He says he loves me but I am scared to say I love u too ,afraid of him leaving me too. please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!You need to give yourself time to heal.
If this great guy loves you, maybe he will still be around when you are ready to feel the same way about him and take things further.
You shouldn't be putting faith in another person's promise to never leave you. That's not healthy, and the emotional backlash can be severely damaging (as you are experiencing now). Everyone experiences heartbreak at some point and in their own way. It's important to give yourself time to learn and grow from it, and move forward and seek a better relationship rather than continuing the cycle of emotional dependence and hurt. Stop relying on men to make you happy and learn to make yourself happy. The rest will fall into place.
Good luck :)
A bit of caution here: If you only know him from over the internet, don't take everything
he says to be the truth...
You need to spend time with someone in person to know if you love them or not...
If you find out you love someone, enjoy the time you have together,
if it falls apart, you learned something about yourself and relationships..
If we live our life being afraid of being hurt, then we don't live, we just exist..
I know how you feel I was married for 15 years I don't believe in divorce. I did everything to keep the marriage going. We've been separated for 2 years and divorced almost 3 months. Don't know how to get over it.
Nornally I tell people to get a support group of friends and volunteer someplace. I have now been hospitalized myself for 9 weeks. Haveto file for disability hard for me to volunteer when I'm in a nursing home. We have to get over it before we can even move on with our lives.
Warning no one that has never seen you should say I love you if they do they have 1 thing on there mind to get you in bed so be careful.
My sister years ago same thing happened to her he lived across the country. My sister played raquetball she has gone to the world tournaments. She told her friend on the internet that she signed up for a tournament where he lived and asked if they could go out for dinner. Turned out he revealed that he was 15 years older than he said. He was overweight and bald and married with kids. So be very cautious with Internet dating sites.
If you are not ready, then that's all there is to it.
You need the time you need, and also i am going to tell you to meet people in person, on the Internet is ok to begin with, but you have to actually see the man face to face.
If your scared to say you love him..then don't. That's my advice, for what its worth.
A man you just met on the internet who says he loves you is lying.
Honey - a relationship involves face to face meetings with real people, in public.
If you want to see where the relationship goes, get it off-line and onto a real date.
No one can promise to be with you forever, so much can happen that it is just silly to even think it.
You need to meet and see if you click in person, hard to say you love someone and you really do not even know them.
And you need time to re coop from the last break up.
Well, at this stage in time, you can always wish for the best by allowing plenty of time for one another. Take as long as possible to get to know him. Commitment is another issue.
You are a classic case of someone who starting dating again before they were ready. Either let him go or suck it up and let yourself love him completely. If you can't love him completely, let him find someone who will.
give time yourself. be bold, check urself, take decision when u've healthy thoughts ok.
As long as hes name isnt bar. everything is fine.. Lol ironic.. theres a aime mariee on here.
just try.
what.the.hell..
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