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2011年8月4日星期四

How do I talk to my wife about this?

-Last week we went to visit my wife's family from out of town. When I packed I forgot to pack underwear but luckily my mother in law had just bought new underwear for my father in law so she told me I could just have it. (Usually I wear boxer-briefs and he had fruit of the loom briefs). My wife found it hilarious and called them "tighty whities" and kept teasing me about them saying how unattractive they are. Her 2 brothers and their wives also found it funny (even though both her brothers both wore briefs when her and I got married and only did they switch when the got married and thought they werent cool).



Anyways,after wearing them all week I realized how comfortable they were and how much I actually missed wearing them. (I used to wear them as a kid and then got teased about it in high school and made the switch to boxer-briefs). So now being back at home I actually kinda find the boxer briefs uncomfortable to have around the sides of my legs. So last night I went out and bought a couple more pairs of the fruit of the loom briefs in addition the the packages that my mother in law gave to me but didnt tell my wife and have been wearing them but hiding the dirty laundry from her. How do I go about telling her I want to wear them again after she kept going on and on about how unattractive she thought they were and how she hated when guys wore them??

I'm really worried that she won't want me to wear them and will find me unattractive if i dont wear them.She should care about you being comfortable, just dont wear them ALL the time. Throw on the boxer briefs every now and then. It would be like her wearing granny panties all the time. I bet you wouldn't want to see that ALL the time lol. Just tell her you got used to them and understand why some guys still wear them :)
Jeez, everyone is entitled to change now and then...I mean, do you freak out if she wears different panties? Tell her you like wearing them from time to time, so she won't feel jarred by the new you, as if it's a threat to your image or something.
I couldn't care less what type of underwear my fiance wears. I actually prefer briefs and find them more attractive and that's what he wears - but if he wore boxers I wouldn't say anything about it. He doesn't tell me what type of underwear to wear, lol.
Just tell her, there is no reason for you to be uncomfortable just because she thinks they are unattractive. If she loves you she will accept it.
Tell her the briefs provide better support. boxers is like her walking around with a bra that don't lift.
Just sport them :) who cares.
Do you tell her what knickers to wear ?

She wears whats comfortable

You should do the same

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