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2011年8月4日星期四

Does it mean anything?

-My Husband and I have been married for 3 years and ive always been happy and I really try to make him happy. The other day he went golfing with his friends and then they came over to our house. I was upstairs cleaning and stuff but I heard them and all they did is joke about marriage and its misery and stuff. Including my husband!!!! He made plenty of jokes about how miserable it is and it really hurt me. I just sat on our bed and cried until he came in and saw me and asked me what was wrong. I told him I heard what he said about marriage and stuff and then he sat next to me told me he was with the guys and they were just kidding and gave me a kiss on the forehead. Was it really just joking or do guys always just joke about this kind of thing.Male bravado is cruel and insensitive, lots of men behave this way when they with male friends, what is important is how he treats you and how he generally makes you feel, is he loving and caring toward you, if so then you got nothing to worry bout, if not then id say its time to look more deeply at your relationship, good luck.
Unless you heard him mention specific details from your marriage, he was just trying to fit in with the guys. No man likes to admit to their friends that they're happy in their marriage. Its a macho thing.
He's just being a guy and you're being a woman to the extreme. Try to control those hormones and act reasonable. You should hear the guff my husband got when he asked for time off work for our wedding.
you need to get out more. People complain about marriage ALL the time.
I don't think you have anything to worry about but I can understand why it hurt your feelings.
OMG!!!!! He was chillin with the guys....relax...he didn't mean to hurt you...This conversation was NOT meant for your ears...chill out.

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