Your opinion plz..??//?

-This is more of a question about visitation.I do not get along with my sons father I have tried everything.We fought over visitation and he got what he wanted even though before I proved in court he was a no call no show 8 times.Now he leaves text msgs which I ignore because half of them is him saying bad stuff to me or cussing me out.I have my son ready to go but he does not show up.He will just leave a text that says are you ready like it is my sons phone.I just don't want to talk to him ever again he brings me down and does everything to make my life a living hell.What should I do?Nothing you can do, unless you want to return to court and fight to change the agreement. Just live your life, ignore him and raise your child as best as you can.Get over it.



He has the RIGHT to visitation. He is not obligated to exercise that right. Fighting visitation in court on the basis of him not showing up in the past was a guarantee that he'd win his case... (I have to assume you didn't have a lawyer. A lawyer would have told you this and you could have saved a ton of time, money and emotional energy.)



Whether you get along with him is irrelevant. The reality is that he has the right to no-show at every visitation for the rest of your child's life. Yes, it's a pain for you. But it will teach your child what a loser their father is in a way you would never be able to. And you'll come out smelling like a rose, since you'll have that child prepared to see his daddy at the appointed time, every time...