Should I divorce him?

-We have been together for 10 years we have 2 children together. He has a crazy psychotic sister who tells me she knows secrets about him that would devastate me. I ask her what she is talking about and she tells me she dont want to say because she doesnt want me and his kids gone.When I tell him he acts all mad and says shes lieing and that he wants nothing to do with her since she is trying to brake us up.He talks bad about her to me, but I just found out he has been sneeking around talking to her and going to see her before he come home from work. I tell him I don't care if he talks to her but I want nothing to do with her. Why would he need to sneek around?That would throw a red flag in my face......get to the bottom or leave
get her liquored up and kind out what she knows.If its bad get a lawyer
I think automatically divorcing him is a big leap don't you think? Divorce isn't something to be taken lightly when talking about a serious marriage with children.



You've known each other for 10 YEARS. For all you know this could be a misunderstanding.



But you NEED to get to the bottom of it. Sit him down one day and talk to him. Tell him that you accept that he may want some privacy in his life as we all do but you won't accept sneaking around.



Ask him WHY his sister wants to break the two of you up. Talk to the sister. Find out what these BIG SECRETS are. And remember you aren't married to your sister in law. You're married to HIM.



If you get divorced what will you tell you 2 kids. I got divorced because your father may or may not have been hiding things? It seems to me to be a very iffy reason.