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2011年8月4日星期四

How do I escape an abusive relationship with a five week old baby?

-I have been in a relationship with my partner now for two years. We have a five week old daughter together and he admittedly has anger problems. During the pregnancy I was spat on, pushed, hit in the back and winded and cheated on. Since we have had our daughter things calmed down until recently when I asked him to make her a bottle ready for when she woke up and I got grabbed by the neck, hit in the back till i was winded and chased back up the stairs. I have tried to leave numerous times but because he is type one diabetic he threatens to miss his injections or over dose and kill himself and has recently threatened my dad and grandmother who I am really close to. He will also stand at the bedroom door and make sure I stay there until he thinks I am ready to come out. The only phone we have belongs to him so i cant phone the police and when I go out he comes with me. However, if I say I want to go out alone I get accused of going to see another man and when he goes out he locks me in and takes the keys. I don't no what to do anymore. Does anyone have any advice? I don't want my daughter to be brought up around this!Ask for Help, find a way to leave the place if it's not possible to call 911,..You have to get out of this maltreatment..Don't do this for yourself but for your daughter, hitting is not a privileged in a married life, we were not born just to be hit by other person physically or emotionally..don't be threatened with his acts, be scared for your life and your daughter's..find a way i know you can...Good luck
That's terrible;( If he goes out, run away. Let him overdose, the asshole doesn't deserve to live after hurting a woman. Stab him with a knife, grab your daughter and run to the police. Put some sleeping pills or knock out medicine in his food and when he passes out run. There is nothing wrong with self defense.
There's a lot of help you get, but it's hard to advise or provide websites because we don't know where you are from. You go to a shelter for women, go to the police and tell them you and your child's life are in imitate danger.
Leave. And don't worry if he chooses to overdose or miss his shots or whatever. There is no excuse for what he is doing, not medical, not history, no excuse at all. Get away, take your child and leave. And report to the police that he has made threats. Do it now.

good luck.
You got a computer with internet? Look up the local police and push CONTACT ME...

Give them an address. Leave your address here and now and have one of us call the cops and send them along with your message over.
You should have left long before. Call the police and press charges. It won't be long before he hits your daughter.
Call 9-1-1. They call back and he answers and you scream like you are being murdered...then the cops show up and you have your out.
just pray
first if he is doing this and it is that hard to get the word help out then how did you type this? second if he is saying he will kill him self would that not allow you to move on? third why the hell have you put up with this for two years they have these thing called women shelters go to one.



this being said please leave him better the child not have a dad then have one that hits and beats the mom and maybe even the child one day. i am not saying kill him when i say that it would allow you to move on i am just saying if he did it sounds like it may help you out. i hate saying this but really if he is that stupid then he either needs to be admitted or left to do what he thinks he needs to do.



all in all leave and do not look back!
We in public education, have so let you down.



We used to offer classes in how to marry, how to pick a marriage partner, how to not get pregnant, and when to think about starting a family.



You did it all wrong.... got pregnant by a jerk, and an unhealthy one at that.



In your place, I'd admit my error, take my child, and leave. And if that meant a women's shelter, or under a bridge, fine. And then I'd get some counseling on how to make a better choice., next time.



Women who choose a looser once, will often choose another. It's a pattern, over and over, and over., and a recipe for "How to be poor and stay poor your entire life."
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Why are you even with this person?



My dad did stupid **** like this and my mother left him on the spot. He tried to kill us and even had us at gun point when I was still a baby.



This is illegal, don't stand there and take it. Let him miss the injections, it serves him right. This is serious, get the police involved immediately. Go to a neighbors and ask to use their phone.



Also, how does he lock you in? Go through a window! There's got to be some way out.





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