Having a threesome makes me a whore.?

-I slept with one guy and had a threesome with him (me, him and his friend)

I was single and that was my fantasy, I have never done it before or after, I feel really bad even its been over a year.We used to talk with this guy a lot, about sex obviously, shared lots of fantasies, it was very exciting.

So after the threesome the other guy wanted to hang out just to chill, but I cut them off and told not to msg me ever again.

So the guy that I was always talking to still kept in touch with me as he probably felt I鈥檓 into it and he had his own fantasy - wanted me to fulfil his fantasy -sex with two women but I refused.

After I haven't seen them and this particular guy for a year, so that guy got a girlfriend and never contacted me since. And鈥?we met at a local party few days ago鈥e knew I鈥檓 going to be there, I tried to ignore him but he came up to me hugging me as I was an old friend.

He knows I feel bad about the threesome thing. He didn鈥檛 bring his GF and acted as was single, we had a great time, we talked, he kept telling me how amazing to see me and how great I鈥檓 ,of course I didn鈥檛 take his words seriously.

I'm so confused, I have two questions:

1.what was the point of wanting to see me and hang out after so long? I don鈥檛 want him to think I鈥檓 a who.re even though he is not better than I am..

2. what does he think of me..? I don鈥檛 want him to think I am a whor.e , also we have common friends and its disturbing鈥?/div>

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Avoid Avoid Avoid this guy totally, dont get pressured and it was a mistake in the past but get over it.

who cares what he thinks dont let it bother you. Ignore his advances and his calls etc, but dont worry about it. forget what he thinks, he just want sex.
Sweetie I think you understand that what you did was actually a big mistake...I think you should move out of the area and try and start anew
How many times are you going to ask the same damn question?



Yes, you are a dirty, slutty, filthy WH0RE!!!!!



Now move on!
Good grief Brittany...save it for the "Singles and Dating" - not "Marriage and Divorce" category..



Honestly.



Grace
great question. My wife says i can have a threesome if i can find another woman...you want in?
No not a whore ,,,,,,, a slut ,,,,,,,,,,,, whores get paid.
well ur story is jucy but dear get a life, doing these thing at this age will make u to b gay in near future, as u will be soooo over this have 2som 3 som 4 som..............*** ***
maybe he might think that u would be able to have sex with him more offten
Who cares what he thinks of you he was in on it too. What does that make him? I wouldn't put to much into him the relationship is over. Funny how guys think if a girl does something naughty and so do they that the woman is a tramp. Just let it go and move on. Don't be to hard on yourself what is done is done nothing you can change except for feeling good about yourself and forgiving yourself. All of us have skeletons in our closet just some of us are not willing to admit them.
I didn't used to think you were a whore, but now that you asked the same question a thousand times I shall relent. Yes dear, you are a whore. Feel better?



I can't imagine what that would make my wife, but at least she isn't sitting around bitching and moaning about it.
LOL, well First of all How old are you? I guess it's ONLY okay for a guy to have sex with 2 girls right?

Hate that diverse ****! Anyways, If I'd were you I'd feel I have made a Huge Mistake. Guys use girls like these (You) and Move on. It's likely he's thinks you're a slut and will do this 3 some Fantasy with the Next guys that come along in your Life. A Real Man wants a untouched Virgin.
Ok he could be actually nice and not care about the threesome. maybe he doesn't want to think about it either. I have had threesomes before and before you haters out there hate on me i was with him for 5 years and it was people we knew. and no there was no double penetration. I am no longer with the certain boyfriend but we do keep in touch as i also do with the other guys. We do not talk about the threesome unless we are picking at each other. I say he is just being nice and actually wants to talk to you as a friend.
Not at all.



There are married couples who bring another person in the bed room. just makes them Curious and adventurous.

1. He must have had feelings for you physically or emotionally. Seeing someone after a long time is exciting. Brings back feelings and memories. Most of the time all good ones.



2. No one can tell you what he thinks of you. His joy in meeting you after so long, means it is positive. If he thought you were some tramp or trash, he would have not talked at all.



All people have thoughts of sex. Wanting to try something is normal. You just did something you wanted. Many people do this, with friends or spouse. Just fail to talk about it. I suggest you hold your head up and do not discount your value. Some guy will find you hot, his desire and love you. Be open to this and keep your past to your self.

I wish you the best.