Do husbands like to keep their wives fat?

-I'm curious because before I met my husband I was 5'1,115 lbs with everything proportional while wearing a size 3. I was hot and every single coworker of my husband would always tell him how lucky a redneck like him could marry an exotic beauty like me. However after a year of marriage, my face is still the same but I have ballooned up to 135 lbs! I have never weighted that much in my life, and I am almost a size 7! My husband still says how attractive he is to me, but is it possible he wants me to be this big?



I can't lose any weight currently because I am 4 months pregnant, but before I weighted 135. OmgNice blame trip on your husband. It's usually the sendentary (couch potato) lifestyle you fall into when living together, not your partner's fault.



How is your husband's weight doing? Suggest you both start eating better, healthier, and start getting off the couch more and exercising.



Unless he has a 'fat girl fetish', which is unlikely because he was attracted to you initially at 115, he has very little to do with your weight. You do.
I've heard men say that they'd be afraid to lose their wives if they lost weight and gained self confidence... but it's because they have insecurities of their own.

But you're in control of YOUR body! Get yourself down to the size where YOU feel comfortable. If you're unhappy with the way you are, it's only going to drag you down and eventually lower your self esteem to where you don't think you'll ever change.
Honestly, I think most men like a woman to stay as close to what they married. So if your husband liked you at 115 then he probably wants you to return to that after the baby is born.



Many men lie to keep the sex life going. As they would rather have sex with you at almost any weight then no sex at all.
I would have to say "No" on that one! You have a good guy there. To me, it always seemed that the woman stopped caring about herself, once she got married. Its funny how they all seem to loose it once they get a divorce!
Husbands don't keep their wives fat--you choose to stuff food in your pie hole. If your husband impregnated you, then he obviously doesn't care that you eat so much.
Four months pregnant? The little tyke must weigh all of a half a pound by now.
Chances are he likes the fact that you have curves, instead of being sickly and thin.
Hmmmm.... just a thought - I wonder if the fact that your PREGNANT has anything to do with gaining weight.. just a thought.
um 135 is not fat.
You're not fat you're pregnant.
prehaps you should be asking your husband!!
I like to keep my wife's belly full.



That's my job as a husband and a man.
We prefer the term "cuddly".
i like mine skinny
In some cases its possible. perhaps they are scared of losing you and want you to put on lbs so no other guys will give you as much attention.



Its more likely though that he just loves you for you and being in the relationship sometimes people slack off on exercise / being active and do a lot of sitting around eating badly and the lbs just add on. Or your metabolism slows down etc.. After your baby just make sure you do some daily workouts/running etc.. cardio will keep most of your weight off if you have a high metabolism. Lack of exercise especially after having a child will just keep you blowing up though.
Ha ha I'm the same!

I was a size 12-14 and I'm a size 18-20 now but my Husband LOVES me!

He just can't get enough of my hourglass figure and my curvaceous body!



I guess when you're in a relationship with someone who loves you as you are and not what you look like you tend to let yourself go because you're not "on the scene" anymore.



It's different when you're single and trying to pull because looks matter before anything else-obviously!

How can you become attracted to someone personally if you've never met them before?



It's just the way things go =)

He loves you so what's the problem?

You're still the beautiful woman he fell in love with!